Just started the "Be extraordinary Camp" a second time with Vishen Lakhiani. 

First thing he wants me to do is to find my moment of awakening. The moment where you realize that life isn't just happening to you.

For me it was the time i met my girlfriend. She showed me that there are brules (bullsh** rules) all around us and that i have the power to make a change. This was the moment my current life started. I guess sometimes you need a wingman (or a wingwoman) to manage lifes challenges.